Desires

Core desires

1. What do you long for most right now – in love, in life, or in yourself?

2. Are there desires you’ve held back from expressing? Why?

3. What’s one thing you ache for that you rarely speak about?

Desire and identity

4. How have your desires changed over the years?

5. Do you ever feel conflict between what you want and what you think you "should" want?

6. What kind of version of yourself comes alive when you follow your desires?

Desire in relationships

7. What kinds of desires feel easy to share in a relationship? Which ones feel harder?

8. How do you want to be met when you express a deep longing or vulnerability?

9. Do you feel more desire in closeness or in distance – or a mix of both?

Creative and existential longing

10. Is there a dream or calling you’ve put aside that still whispers to you?

11. How does longing show up in your body? What does it feel like?

12. If nothing was holding you back – no fear, no limits – what would you reach for?