Sex

Sex, identity and culture

1. What did you learn growing up about what “healthy” or “normal” sex is supposed to look like?

2. How do you think cultural norms around monogamy shape our expectations around sex?

3. Do you feel that sex and love always need to go together? Why or why not?

Desire and connection

4. What role does sex play in how you feel connected to a partner?

5. Do you ever feel pressure to fulfill certain roles sexually in a relationship?

6. How do your sexual desires or needs relate to your interest in monogamy or openness?

Growth and exploration

7. Are there aspects of your sexuality that you’ve felt you couldn’t explore within monogamy?

8. What excites or scares you about the idea of sexual freedom within an open relationship?

9. How do you define sexual autonomy in the context of a committed relationship?

Communication and boundaries

10. How comfortable are you talking about sex, fantasies, and needs with a partner?

11. What boundaries would feel important to have around sex in a non-monogamous dynamic?

12. How do you want your sexual relationship(s) to evolve over time?